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TLD Coaching, LLC
| Friendship |
| REMEMBERING MY FRIENDS |
Last Update: June 21, 2008
| "Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words." George Elliot |
| To my Friends: 'We Laughed when no one else was laughing'. Each moment has built strength, character and fullness. Thanks for your Purpose! With Love, Tammy 'Dirks' ************ A strange phenomenon in friendships is the one that exists between what we may call 'kindred souls'. These are people you may meet about whom you have this instant gut feeling, that they are going to have a place in your life and in your heart forever. These will often turn out to be the friends who will support you at any cost, even at times when they don't agree with you. ************ How can we recognize potential friendship? Signs include a mutual desire for companionship and perhaps a common bond of some kind. Beyond that, genuine friendship involves a shared sense of caring and concern, a desire to see one another grow and develop, and a hope for each other to succeed in all aspects of life. True friendship involves action: doing something for someone else while expecting nothing in return; sharing thoughts and feelings without fear of judgment or negative criticism. (Source:www.allaboutgod.com) ************ Friendship is the bigger statement. Lots of people are lovers but aren't friends. Lots of people are relatives and aren't friends. Lots of people work together who aren't friends. You can appreciate or admire someone, but that doesn't make them a friend. |
| Because friends have played an important role in my growth as a person, I dedicate this page to my friends and the importance of friendships. Through my friends I have learned to be a better listener, a better communicator, more compassionate, more understanding, nonjudgmental, and just a better person. They have been one of my main resources for becoming a life coach. Without them I would not be the person I am today. If there is one thing I am most proud of in life, it is having such good friends and being a good friend! |
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Having Tammy as a friend is an excellent example of friendship in itself. Open-
minded, genuine, compassionate, and level-headed, she can always be counted on
to listen and provide support when needed. Her wonderful sense of humor,
adventure, and life experiences have given her the ability to see any situation in a
positive sense. Personally believing that ‘people come into our lives for a reason, a
season, or a lifetime’, I’ve known for a long time that Tammy is a lifetime friend.
Jan Lucht, Reiki Master, Appleton, Wisconsin
"A friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in
yourself. by Lysha
After looking up the definition of friendship (Friendship: the state of being a friend;
association as friends: to value a person's friendship), it occurred to me that Tammy
is more than just a friend, she's a companion, confidant, advisor, moral supporter
and 'yes', the best of friends. Our friendship is an oddity in it's self, since when
we first met in 1981, I was a extremely introverted, shy person and Tammy was a
outgoing, bubbly, fun-loving, with a 'let it all hang out' type of personality. She
allowed me to be me, but also encouraged me to let loose and open up to enjoy the
virtues of life. Through the years, our respect for each other has grown deeper
and stronger, she's the first person I think of calling with good news and the first
one I call when I need help to get through the day. No matter what she's doing,
she is willing to listen and give advice, putting her own daily chores aside to help
a friend in need. As platonic roommates for several years, Tammy was there to
help me with several personal obstacles and years of self doubt, for that, I am
deeply grateful. Even after Tammy felt the need to grow herself and move a
thousand of miles away from her birthplace, our friendship has remained strong.
We still talk on a weekly basis. When Tammy decided to move from the East side
of Atlanta to downtown and couldn't find anyone to help her move, she didn't even
have to ask, I was glad to offer my assistance and travel from Wisconsin to Georgia
to help, it was the least I could do for my best friend.
People come and go into and out of our lives, but best friends are
there....forever....Tammy will always be a part of my life.....forever. "
Mike Duescher, Manitowoc, WI
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks
out." Walter Winchell
As a sophomore in high school I was rather quiet and shy, but then I ended up
sitting next to this girl named Tammy in Geometry class. We quickly became close
friends. I give much credit to Tammy for helping me 'come out of my shell'. Her
friendship helped me develop a confidence I had not had in the past. She is a
special part of all of my best high school memories. Although our lives have taken
different paths, she is still very much a part of my life. Our time together is limited,
but in my heart I always know she is only an e-mail or phone call away at any
given time. Love you!
Karen Surfus, Milwaukee, WI
"Life is partly what we make it, and partly what is made by the friends
whom we choose." Tehyi Hsieh
"I worked with Tammy when she lived in Wisconsin. We became very good
friends and confidants. The minute I met her, it was like I knew her my whole
life. Tammy is very easy to talk to, listens well, always has good advice, has a
good sense of humor, and has strong family ties. Even though she has moved on,
she still makes the effort to stay in touch with me, which is such a nice quality in
someone. It is so easy in today's world to just let old relationships go because
"we just don't have the time," "life is too busy," etc. A few years back, my brother
died. As usual, there was Tammy from miles away to reach out and lend me the
help I needed to get through such a difficult time. I am truly grateful to have such
a wonderful and caring person as Tammy in my life."
Sarah Much, Appleton, WI
"Happiness is time spent with a friend and looking forward to sharing
time with them again." Lee Wilkinson
In the course of a lifetime many friends come and go. There is actually only a
small percentage of friends that become a permanent part of one's life. I have been
gifted with the unconditional friendship of Tammy for approximately 27 years.
Tammy and our circle of friends have had many goods times together. Just about
anything you can think of, to have fun, we probably did it. Along with good times
there are also always going to be some challenging times. As one goes though life,
there is without a doubt going to be some growing pains that in the long run help
them grow and develop. In the many years I have been friends with Tammy, no
matter what issue came up, I could always count on Tammy to listen and offer her
most sincere advice. People don't stay the same forever. As time goes on, we as
individuals continue to grow and develop and encounter a lot of personal change.
With personal change can create a change in friendships. As mentioned earlier,
friends come and go, however, not Tammy, she has always remained a constant
friend. When Tammy moved to GA a number of years ago, I thought it might
change our friendship. However I am now aware that friendship cannot be defined
by miles. It does not make any difference if Tammy lives in WI or GA, or Tish
Mills, when we get together or communicate via e-mail/phone she is still the same
good friend she has always been. We consistently just pick up where we left off
and I know that will never change. If you are friends with Tammy, consider
yourself very lucky.
Tammy's Friend - LTD, Appleton, WI
"A true friend is someone you can trust with all your secrets."
Jeffery Sherian
I have known Tammy as a friend for the past twenty years. She has so many
excellent friend qualities. She truly is a great listener and is willing to offer
honest advice if needed. She is a lot of fun to be around and is easy-going. She is
a very caring person and is genuinely interested in what is happening in your life.
I feel a strong connection even though we live far apart. It is always easy to
reconnect when we see or talk to each other. I value her friendship and know that
she would be there for me any time I needed someone. Some friends come and go,
but I know Tammy will be a trusted friend to me always.
Sherry Daley, Appleton, WI
"If you judge people, you have no time to love them." Mother Teresa
Honesty and sincerity are two of Tammy’s assets. Her strengths are her patience
and listening skills paired with her sense of humor and a touch of class. She will
join you for a hearty laugh and shed a tear with you any time of day. Her word is
good, no exception. And she has a great smile. Her circle of friends is special; to
be selected or embedded in the circle is an honor. Entertaining and funny,
serious and compassionate.
Jac Trudell, Neenah, WI
"Fate chooses your relations, you choose your friends." Jacques Delille
You know how there are certain people in your life that will always be with you no
matter where they are or where you are -- Tam is one of those certain people in my
life. We've known each other for many, many years and even though we don't see
each other often or talk often, I know if I need someone, Tam will always be there
for me. When we do get on the phone, you can guarantee it's gonna be at least a 2
hour conversation. It's as if we just saw each other yesterday -- we never miss a
beat. We've been classmates, roommates, East 40 mates, Washington Station
mates, road trip mates (Chicago, Lakewood, etc.), and Armed Forces' Day mates.
We've had an unbelievable amount of fun for 40 something year olds, and I'm
hoping there's a lot more to come.
Cathy Holm. Gladstone, MI
"It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid
with them." Ralph Waldo Emerson
Tammy and I go WAAAY back to our early high school years. Back then, she was
always someone you could count on for many different things. She was always
there for anybody who needed a friend to talk to. Tammy comes from a large
family and, family and friends have always been very important to her. She's very
dedicated in all that she does and is open to new ideas and opportunities. Tammy
and I don't see each other that often any more, and with our hectic lifestyles and
being over 1000 miles away, it's hard to keep in touch with each other. However,
when we do get together or talk it's like we've been keeping in touch on a weekly
basis. I believe that that's what an old and dear friendship is."
Barb Bubnes- DePere, WI
"Ah, how good it feels...the hand of an old friend" Mary Englebright
My Friend Tammy! We have known each other for about 15 years. My life has had
many ups and downs. Tammy has always been there, providing a good ear and
advice. In group situations, people seem to be drawn to her. Then they start
talking and she's listening, asking questions and giving guidance. I know I can
always call Tammy, especially when I'm down. We will talk through the situation
and by the end of the conversation I feel better about myself. I know I have
choices and don't always make the right ones. It's nice to have a friend like Tammy
to help walk through them."
Alice Walker, Neenah, WI
"A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere
else." Len Wein - Sent by Paulo Louro
I've been friends with Tammy for quite a few years and I've come to know what a
valuable friend she is. She's a good listener with all the qualities you'd want in a
friend. Tammy has a good sense of humor and whenever we get together we have
a great time with lots of laughter.
Tammy Klinzing, New London, WI
"When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the
best in ourselves. William Arthur Ward
minded, genuine, compassionate, and level-headed, she can always be counted on
to listen and provide support when needed. Her wonderful sense of humor,
adventure, and life experiences have given her the ability to see any situation in a
positive sense. Personally believing that ‘people come into our lives for a reason, a
season, or a lifetime’, I’ve known for a long time that Tammy is a lifetime friend.
Jan Lucht, Reiki Master, Appleton, Wisconsin
"A friend is one who believes in you when you have ceased to believe in
yourself. by Lysha
After looking up the definition of friendship (Friendship: the state of being a friend;
association as friends: to value a person's friendship), it occurred to me that Tammy
is more than just a friend, she's a companion, confidant, advisor, moral supporter
and 'yes', the best of friends. Our friendship is an oddity in it's self, since when
we first met in 1981, I was a extremely introverted, shy person and Tammy was a
outgoing, bubbly, fun-loving, with a 'let it all hang out' type of personality. She
allowed me to be me, but also encouraged me to let loose and open up to enjoy the
virtues of life. Through the years, our respect for each other has grown deeper
and stronger, she's the first person I think of calling with good news and the first
one I call when I need help to get through the day. No matter what she's doing,
she is willing to listen and give advice, putting her own daily chores aside to help
a friend in need. As platonic roommates for several years, Tammy was there to
help me with several personal obstacles and years of self doubt, for that, I am
deeply grateful. Even after Tammy felt the need to grow herself and move a
thousand of miles away from her birthplace, our friendship has remained strong.
We still talk on a weekly basis. When Tammy decided to move from the East side
of Atlanta to downtown and couldn't find anyone to help her move, she didn't even
have to ask, I was glad to offer my assistance and travel from Wisconsin to Georgia
to help, it was the least I could do for my best friend.
People come and go into and out of our lives, but best friends are
there....forever....Tammy will always be a part of my life.....forever. "
Mike Duescher, Manitowoc, WI
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks
out." Walter Winchell
As a sophomore in high school I was rather quiet and shy, but then I ended up
sitting next to this girl named Tammy in Geometry class. We quickly became close
friends. I give much credit to Tammy for helping me 'come out of my shell'. Her
friendship helped me develop a confidence I had not had in the past. She is a
special part of all of my best high school memories. Although our lives have taken
different paths, she is still very much a part of my life. Our time together is limited,
but in my heart I always know she is only an e-mail or phone call away at any
given time. Love you!
Karen Surfus, Milwaukee, WI
"Life is partly what we make it, and partly what is made by the friends
whom we choose." Tehyi Hsieh
"I worked with Tammy when she lived in Wisconsin. We became very good
friends and confidants. The minute I met her, it was like I knew her my whole
life. Tammy is very easy to talk to, listens well, always has good advice, has a
good sense of humor, and has strong family ties. Even though she has moved on,
she still makes the effort to stay in touch with me, which is such a nice quality in
someone. It is so easy in today's world to just let old relationships go because
"we just don't have the time," "life is too busy," etc. A few years back, my brother
died. As usual, there was Tammy from miles away to reach out and lend me the
help I needed to get through such a difficult time. I am truly grateful to have such
a wonderful and caring person as Tammy in my life."
Sarah Much, Appleton, WI
"Happiness is time spent with a friend and looking forward to sharing
time with them again." Lee Wilkinson
In the course of a lifetime many friends come and go. There is actually only a
small percentage of friends that become a permanent part of one's life. I have been
gifted with the unconditional friendship of Tammy for approximately 27 years.
Tammy and our circle of friends have had many goods times together. Just about
anything you can think of, to have fun, we probably did it. Along with good times
there are also always going to be some challenging times. As one goes though life,
there is without a doubt going to be some growing pains that in the long run help
them grow and develop. In the many years I have been friends with Tammy, no
matter what issue came up, I could always count on Tammy to listen and offer her
most sincere advice. People don't stay the same forever. As time goes on, we as
individuals continue to grow and develop and encounter a lot of personal change.
With personal change can create a change in friendships. As mentioned earlier,
friends come and go, however, not Tammy, she has always remained a constant
friend. When Tammy moved to GA a number of years ago, I thought it might
change our friendship. However I am now aware that friendship cannot be defined
by miles. It does not make any difference if Tammy lives in WI or GA, or Tish
Mills, when we get together or communicate via e-mail/phone she is still the same
good friend she has always been. We consistently just pick up where we left off
and I know that will never change. If you are friends with Tammy, consider
yourself very lucky.
Tammy's Friend - LTD, Appleton, WI
"A true friend is someone you can trust with all your secrets."
Jeffery Sherian
I have known Tammy as a friend for the past twenty years. She has so many
excellent friend qualities. She truly is a great listener and is willing to offer
honest advice if needed. She is a lot of fun to be around and is easy-going. She is
a very caring person and is genuinely interested in what is happening in your life.
I feel a strong connection even though we live far apart. It is always easy to
reconnect when we see or talk to each other. I value her friendship and know that
she would be there for me any time I needed someone. Some friends come and go,
but I know Tammy will be a trusted friend to me always.
Sherry Daley, Appleton, WI
"If you judge people, you have no time to love them." Mother Teresa
Honesty and sincerity are two of Tammy’s assets. Her strengths are her patience
and listening skills paired with her sense of humor and a touch of class. She will
join you for a hearty laugh and shed a tear with you any time of day. Her word is
good, no exception. And she has a great smile. Her circle of friends is special; to
be selected or embedded in the circle is an honor. Entertaining and funny,
serious and compassionate.
Jac Trudell, Neenah, WI
"Fate chooses your relations, you choose your friends." Jacques Delille
You know how there are certain people in your life that will always be with you no
matter where they are or where you are -- Tam is one of those certain people in my
life. We've known each other for many, many years and even though we don't see
each other often or talk often, I know if I need someone, Tam will always be there
for me. When we do get on the phone, you can guarantee it's gonna be at least a 2
hour conversation. It's as if we just saw each other yesterday -- we never miss a
beat. We've been classmates, roommates, East 40 mates, Washington Station
mates, road trip mates (Chicago, Lakewood, etc.), and Armed Forces' Day mates.
We've had an unbelievable amount of fun for 40 something year olds, and I'm
hoping there's a lot more to come.
Cathy Holm. Gladstone, MI
"It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid
with them." Ralph Waldo Emerson
Tammy and I go WAAAY back to our early high school years. Back then, she was
always someone you could count on for many different things. She was always
there for anybody who needed a friend to talk to. Tammy comes from a large
family and, family and friends have always been very important to her. She's very
dedicated in all that she does and is open to new ideas and opportunities. Tammy
and I don't see each other that often any more, and with our hectic lifestyles and
being over 1000 miles away, it's hard to keep in touch with each other. However,
when we do get together or talk it's like we've been keeping in touch on a weekly
basis. I believe that that's what an old and dear friendship is."
Barb Bubnes- DePere, WI
"Ah, how good it feels...the hand of an old friend" Mary Englebright
My Friend Tammy! We have known each other for about 15 years. My life has had
many ups and downs. Tammy has always been there, providing a good ear and
advice. In group situations, people seem to be drawn to her. Then they start
talking and she's listening, asking questions and giving guidance. I know I can
always call Tammy, especially when I'm down. We will talk through the situation
and by the end of the conversation I feel better about myself. I know I have
choices and don't always make the right ones. It's nice to have a friend like Tammy
to help walk through them."
Alice Walker, Neenah, WI
"A friend is someone who is there for you when he'd rather be anywhere
else." Len Wein - Sent by Paulo Louro
I've been friends with Tammy for quite a few years and I've come to know what a
valuable friend she is. She's a good listener with all the qualities you'd want in a
friend. Tammy has a good sense of humor and whenever we get together we have
a great time with lots of laughter.
Tammy Klinzing, New London, WI
"When we seek to discover the best in others, we somehow bring out the
best in ourselves. William Arthur Ward
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